luv thyself series - prompt #7

how are voizies today? i might switch to posting at night like i have been recently. i don't know, comment when you'd want me to post. side note: i want to be social media famous so bad so i can get paid to just post, but that ish is hard. anyways, let's get into it.

link to the prompts: https://selflovecircle.co.uk/self-love-journal-prompts/

prompt #7: what 3 positive habits do you want to start?

1. waking. up. before. 10. and actually getting up once i'm awake. oh my god. ya girl cannot get herself out of bed. i am really bad at getting up right away. i always end up laying in bed for an extra hour or so on my phone, and that's such a bad habit. it probably has to do with me staying up till 2 am too though. ugh. sleep schedule is a mess.

2. i want to be able to focus on whatever task i have at hand with no distractions. my attention span is ridiculously short and even worse when it is something i don't want to do. however, there are things that i have to do, and getting distracted does not help. i have tried multiple methods like the pomodoro method, putting my phone up completely, taking breaks, but nothing has stuck yet. i hope that i become more focused this year. so many things to do 😅

3. i don't know if this is a habit, but i want to build a healthy relationship with time. that may sound weird so, let me explain. i am someone that constantly feels like they are behind. i don't think that i'm where i'm supposed to be, but what is that supposed to mean? i always think that i am running out of time. because of that, i beat myself up for being lost when it comes to career choice and for not working more than i can. given, i should spend my time a little better than i do now, i don't think i should be making myself feel awful about it. i want to be able to not see time as something that is fleeting, but just something that is meant to be taken at my own pace as long as i complete what i need to complete. also, i have this bad fear of aging 🥲 i get so worried when i see wrinkles settle in or the circles under my eyes getting darker. there's nothing wrong with those things, and i need to stop fearing something that is inevitable.

these things take immense patience, something that i have little of, but i believe they are habits that i can implement over time. "iiii got this," in my gabi diamond voice (if you get that reference, i love you) what positive habits would you like to create? comment below! see you tmr :) 💘